For some networking meetings, the agenda is obvious: Your companies are considering doing business together, or you’re looking for a job and this person might help you get one. But many professionals find themselves in networking meetings where the goals are murkier. Perhaps a friend thought you’d hit it off with someone and introduced you, or you met the person briefly at an event and they followed up for indeterminate reasons. In some cases, you’ll decline the invitation (see “5 Ways to Say No to a Networking Request” for my tips on how to do it). But if the connection seems promising, you may decide to say yes and see where it leads.
When You Agree to a Networking Meeting But Don’t Know What You’re Going to Talk About
If you’re doing a favor for someone, let them take the lead.
March 21, 2017
Summary.
When you’re looking for a job or pursuing business opportunities, the goal of networking meetings is generally fairly straightforward. But how should you approach networking when the agenda is less clear? This piece offers four suggestions to make sure even the murkiest of meetings can be productive and meaningful. First, be clear about your reasons for accepting the meeting — whether it’s a favor for a friend, personal interest, or something else. Second, determine the best meeting format to meet those goals. Third, take some time to figure out the best questions to ask. Finally, develop a follow-up plan to solidify the relationship and act on any next steps discussed during the meeting.
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