Alison Griffin, a senior vice president at Whiteboard Advisors, a social impact consulting firm, and a single mother of two boys, knows the exact moment when she hit the wall during the pandemic and felt burned out.
Combating Burnout as a Single Working Parent
For a long time, single working parents have had to do it all — and since the Covid-19 pandemic began, they are under the greatest strain. Their time is scarce, they have extra demands, and potentially fewer resources. This all leads to one thing: burnout. While work burnout is rooted in work systems and cultures, and must be acknowledged at a systemic level, individuals can also take steps to help themselves. First, see the big picture: If you understand that burnout isn’t a personal failure, you’re much less likely to feel guilt or shame. Second, lower your demands by cutting yourself some slack and tap into your resources — most specifically, your strengths. Third, keep track of small wins. Fourth, ask for help. Finally, take a break and rest when you can.