There’s so much buzz about male allies. Conversations, studies, and presentations about mentors and sponsors are almost always about how leaders who are men can help women. These narratives are important and necessary, of course. But they also offer a narrow definition of leadership, portraying men as the heroes in a story where women need help. While I, too, regularly share examples of male allies and help equip men to be advocates for women, I’m starting to tire of this one-sided portrayal.
Challenging Our Gendered Idea of Mentorship
It’s time to tell stories of women who lead men.
January 06, 2020
Summary.
Conversations on the topic of sponsorship, mentorship, and allyship are often about how male leaders can help women. These narratives are important and necessary, but they also offer a narrow definition of leadership, portraying men as the heroes in a story where women need help. The reality is that just as women benefit from male mentors, sponsors, and allies, men also gain from the mentorship, leadership, and sponsorship of women. But we rarely tell these stories; as a result, this imbalance reinforces negative bias about the ability of women to lead and contributes to the scarcity of women at the top.
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